It’s been one year since my son Troi graduated from high school. I am happy to say that he is gainfully employed and living on his own.
As we embark on this graduation season, I’d like to give some words of encouragement to the foster parents out there:
You are doing a phenomenal job and please keep up the good work.
That said, the odds of our kids actually graduating from high school are stacked against them and downright scary. After a kid turns 18 in foster care:
- 1 in 4 youth experience homelessness.
- 1 in 4 males spent time in jail.
- 3 to 7 different placements on average.
- 6 different schools on average.
- 46% drop out of high school.
If you knew my son Troi’s story you’d be amazed.
If you knew my son’s struggle, you’d give him a standing ovation.
Troi beat the odds and graduated on time with his class, despite all of his struggles, obstacles, and barriers.
He is a Goodson! He is my kid! Stacey and I poured love, guidance, and support into him. Because of that support and love, he beat the odds. We broke that horrific cycle and, for that, we should be proud.
If you are a Foster Parent then stand up and applaud yourselves. You guys are the Real MVP: Most Valuable Parent.